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The majority of men hate to be single. A single man subconsciously hates missing out on all the good things that come with a happy relationship, such as sleeping with gorgeous women, cooking romantic dinners, dreamy weekend getaways, and so on.
Although being in love, being loved and having someone to share our happiness with is awesome, not having it is not a disaster. key west discount hotels If you talk to men who live with their romantic partners, as surprising as it sounds, some of them may complain that they used to be happier before they moved in with their partners. And some of them may wish to go back to their past single life again! Normally the reason key west discount hotels is that every relationship inflicts loads of responsibilities and limitations on you to a level that you may start missing your singlehood.
I am sure at least once you have had such an experience in your life: You meet a woman and on the first date you fall in love with her head over heels! You take her to expensive dinner dates and you buy her gifts or flowers, then after a couple of dates she dumps you, either by not returning your texts/calls or by sending key west discount hotels a text like, I do not want to have romantic relationships with you. We can hang out as friends if you d like. Up to you!
Let me tell you how you felt when this happened: You hate her and yourself! You hated her because you were so nice to her by doing good things for her, but she eventually turned you down. You hated yourself because you spent so much time, effort, and attention on someone who did not even deserve it.
In such a case you fantasized about that woman instead of being realistic and taking your time to get to know her properly. You kept fantasizing about how you could shag her in the bed, how nice it would be to marry her, how nice it would be to travel with her and so on.
When men are single, key west discount hotels they fantasize about women, sex and relationships more than ever. They check out girls a lot more than before when they go out, and they feel jealous of couples who make out in public. All these things create a sense of frustration and desperation, which makes being single become more difficult.
You should never give a woman any value until she gives you same amount of value. That does not mean that you should not respect them, but that actually means that you do not do anything to her other than just being a good person who respects her for who she really is. For example, you never give her any compliments on her looks (e.g. on her blue eyes) but rather if she puts on a nice dress to look good for you then she deserves a compliment on her dress.
A lot of guys feel they have a higher value and status when they are in a relationship with a woman. A woman s approval and her attention are sometimes too important to men, so without receiving key west discount hotels approval and attention from a woman, we do not feel valued. The fact is that people must have their own values, passions and ambitions so that they obtain their own value without needing someone key west discount hotels else to provide it to them.
Some men do not have a busy, active and interesting lifestyle. You may think, Oh of course my life is active because I go to a pub with my friends! but that is not the kind of active life women appreciate! Nor is it the life that can make you happy and fulfilled so you do not expect a woman to bring joy and happiness to your life.
When a man does not have some passions in his life, does not have a close relationship with his family, does not have many close friends, does not travel much, and does not strive to learn something new and cool such as cooking, dancing or painting, he does not feel that his life is happy and meaningful. When this happens, normally, men expect that a girlfriend would bring that happiness and sense of fulfilment to their lives. A lot of men do not travel or do not follow any sports because they leave it to when they find a girlfriend!
Not being happy on our own makes us desperate to find a woman who showers us with happiness. And that desperation makes us give women too much value, fantasizing about them and letting them walk all over us whenever key west discount hotels they want. But if we could be happy on our own, go out and about with our mates, spend time with our families, and use our downtime to learn or do something cool, we would not be desperate to be in a relationship. Do not get me wrong, I am not saying that relationships are not good. I am saying it is not crucial to be in a relationship. In the other worlds, it is good to want women, but it is not good to need them. Need brings weakness and desperation key west discount hotels whereas key west discount hotels want brings motivation and drive to go after achieving what we want.
For example, you may already have a car that takes you from A to B, looks nice and is easy to maintain. Although key west discount hotels you are happy with your average-priced car, you may wish you had an expensive luxury BMW, too. However, not having a luxury BMW does not make you upset because key west discount hotels your current key west discount hotels family car serves you well enough. Therefore, you do not need a BMW but rather you want or wish it.
Can you see the difference here? With want comes motivation and drive, whereas need comes with desperation and frustration. In the dating context, if your life is not happy and fulfilling enough and you expect a woman to come into your life to fill it up with happiness and joy, you will need women. On the other hand, if you have an interesting life in which there are friends, travels, learning and so many other cool things, you will not feel that you need women for that sake. Instead, you would want to share your already key west discount hotels happy and interesting life with a partner who has her own happy and exciting life so that you can share your happy times with each other.
A man ideally must eliminate his needs and replace them with want. Especially key west discount hotels in the context of dating, a man must stop needing women by focusing key west discount hotels on developing and improving key west discount hotels his own life in many different ways.
There is a big difference between men and women when it comes to picking a sexual partner. Women tend to be picky as to whom they are going to sleep with. Normally women must feel some sort of attraction toward the man they choose to sleep with or they will not enjoy having sex!
Men, however, are very different. Although having sex with a woman who is loved by us is so awesome, we normally do not mind having sex with almost any woman because we biologically need sex! Referring to the previous key west discount hotels topic, men do need sex rather than just wanting it, which explains why men are willing to pay to get sex.
If we fill up our spare time up with cool stuff to do, such as spending time with family and friends, learning something interesting, doing excursions or travels and so forth, then we would not really give our brain any chance to start thinking about sex and making us desperate to get it.
The only way to manage this biological urge is to keep ourselves busy with doing cool and fun stuff. I enjoy learning something new, traveling or making some new friends when I am single. In the other words, I use my single time as an opportunity for personal improvement, which then makes me even more attractive to women. But what does attraction actually mean?
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